Introduction: Cutting Through the Noise

Our modern world is saturated with information but starving for depth.

My aim with this guide is to cut through the noise and get you to the signal.

How do men think when it comes to choosing the woman they intend to marry?

Why does he see one woman as "just casual fun” and another as “wife material”?

What’s going on inside him to make him genuinely open to and ready for her?

I’ve been working with clients for 8+ years full time, and I’ve been in this industry for more than a decade.

I’ve done (and am doing) my work in this area to understand the depths of my own psyche.

I’ve worked with a number of male clients who are on the same path.

Of all the men I know who consciously chose to get married, myself included, these are the factors that caused them to be ready for and choose their wives over other women.

This guide doesn’t apply to all men, though I would hazard to say it applies to most.

It’s certainly most applicable to those men who have a strong, outward masculine identity, but also a sensitive and private heart they won’t share with just anyone.

Brave, armored, protective knights - who have gentle, compassionate, and loving Souls.

This is a guide for understanding men like that, men who are on their own version of The Hero’s Journey in Love. How does his masculine brain perceive you?

What inspires a man like that to commit to one woman?

What determines his readiness to embrace that next stage of life and love?

I’m going to try to keep this as succinct as I can. Both out of respect for your time as the reader, and because there’s only so much justice I can do to these topics in a condensed format like this.

We’ll break this subject down across three dimensions:

Strategic (Mind)

Energetic (Body)

Traumatic (Spirit)

These are the dimensions that are operating behind the scenes that will determine how he views a particular woman, and his overall readiness for a serious relationship.

These determine his willingness to fully open his heart to you.