Devin Schirm

Hey this is Devin Schirm, I’m a Dating Coach from the Los Angeles area.

I got my start as someone who grew up insanely insecure around women. For the longest time I didn’t know or even like who I was, and I assumed women wouldn’t either. Rather than facing the parts of myself that needed work I chose to hide from dating entirely. I hoped the problem of my insecurity would sort itself out.

Spoiler; It didn’t.

I eventually got so frustrated with feeling invisible and being afraid that I decided to take action. It was only then that I started to see positive changes.

To overcome my fear I spent way too much time going on dates. In college I pretty much majored in dating with a minor in more dating. The upside is that I learned a ton about the nuances of being successful at it.

Over the course of my journey to understand women and attraction dynamics, I’ve been many of the common male stereotypes: The Shy Nerd, The Douchey Gym Jock, The Womanizing Player, and now my current more balanced and (I like to think) emotionally-healthy self.

I initially chose to exclusively help women with the dating scene, because having personally run the gamut of many common male archetypes, I was in a unique position to be able to show them the inner-workings of male behavior.

That changed over time as I came to realize that 95% of all dating problems and solutions are applicable to both sexes.

Why won’t they commit? Why did they ghost? Is he only looking for sex? Is she only looking for attention? How do I attract them? What am I missing? What am I doing wrong?

I give my clients an unfiltered look into the root dynamics of dating; everything they need to know to succeed at it.

My clients are men and women who are tired of the games & mixed signals, the wasted time, the bullshit. They’re frustrated and exhausted.

I show them how to cut through the noise and find exactly what they’re looking for.